The unemployed dance
So you met someone, and when you did they made it clear that they were not working, lamenting how hard it is finding a job. Even after hearing of their struggles you still went ahead and invested your time and energy in building a relationship with them, but as time progressed you realised that they have not made much of an effort in seeking employment.
You try to assist them by networking and getting them a job; and all they have to do is turn up and hand in their relevant documents. Then they complain that the job you got them isn’t suitable for them.
What do you do? Do you continue to be with someone who has no interest in getting a job?
Lamar:
If after being with her I saw that she wasn’t putting in the effort to get a job, I would end the relationship.
Garcia:
A lack of ambition is a major turn-off, so that relationship wouldn’t even have started.
Courtney:
When a woman is unemployed a man will step up and be the provider for her, but at some point she has to lighten the burden off his shoulders. Unless he is a millionaire, and even then, a sensible man with money isn’t going to spoon-feed a woman for the rest of her life.
Donna:
I’m sorry but I’m not going into a relationship with anyone who has been unemployed for over six months. Anything beyond six months is a sign of being complacent and being unemployed doesn’t give you room to be content with being broke.
Keith:
Not going to happen. If I go out of my way to get you a job, how dare you tell me it’s not the job for you? It’s a job, you will be making money, it’s a start. So not only would she be lazy, but she would also be ungrateful.
