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In search of excitement
All Woman, Confessions
 on February 9, 2017

In search of excitement

By Miss Kes 

Even the Bible says that the marriage bed is undefiled, and judging by the sales of books like Fifty Shades of Grey, many people are longing, hoping, and willing to engage in experimenting with the non-traditional.

But sometimes even the most open-minded person has to draw brakes when their partner comes up with some spicy suggestions. What’s the strangest thing your partner has asked you to do sexually?

Tresha:

My man asked me to have sex with him while he was driving. I thought it sounded really risky, but we did it and I loved it.

RT:

He asked me to touch myself and let him videotape me. I tried and it really excited him. That was our best experience, to be honest.

Carrah:

He has requested many, but they are a bit too graphic. I will say he wanted us to have a sexy party at our apartment where we would invite other couples. I thought about it and I cancelled on him as it was too much for me, and since then our relationship has been going south. I wouldn’t advise anyone seeking to have a healthy relationship to venture into kinky sex as it will kill the relationship you’re trying to build. I am speaking from experience.

Andre:

My girl was telling me some nights ago that she has been watching porn to get some ideas to spice things up, and she brought up some things that to be honest, upset me. Sex is supposed to be natural and normal and if that is what it takes to make our sex life exciting, I told her I’d rather we just be friends.

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