Moms confess: The real stresses and strains of parenthood
FROM a young age many women dream of the day when they will finally have children of their own. Being a parent can bring much joy and pride to someone. In fact, most mothers have told All Woman that it is a wonderful experience. But nothing prepares you for the challenges that come with it — the real stresses and strains of parenthood.
Tanisha B, 30:As a single mom, my main challenge is the lack of finances. Children are expensive, especially the young ones. They are growing and constantly need clothes. They need the right foods to keep them healthy. I can skip meals a few times a week or grab junk food every now and then. But I cannot risk that with my daughter. I have to give her good food every single day. I don’t feed her with snacks and drinks with artificial ingredients. Her snacks are sandwiches, fruits and vegetables, and home-made fruit juices. I take the time out to ensure that all her meals are home-cooked and healthy.
Donna G, 37:It can be hard to control your children, depending on their personalities. Sometimes I end up shouting at my 14-year-old or threatening to take away possessions or privileges.
Ann-Marie L, 27:It’s extremely difficult to take care of young children on your own. They need round-the-clock attention. As a working single mom with no support from the father, I can tell you that’s it is very difficult and costly. I don’t have family close by, so I have to get two live-in sitters because of my work — one during the week and the other on the weekends.
Nadine G, 34:Because of work, I’m unable to spend enough time with my children. I often get home late and work some weekends. It’s even worse with their father. He provides adequate financial support, but they don’t see him as often as I would want them to. I believe that parents must spend sufficient time with their children.
Sharon H, 46:My biggest challenge was getting my son to keep the attitudes and attributes that I instilled in him from a young age. At school he was exposed to different, often unsuitable behaviours, and my husband and I had to work really hard to get him back on track
