Would you forgive him if he cheated while drunk?
It can be surmised that infidelity, like any other act, is a choice. But there are also some people who believe that it all depends on the situation one is in. We asked several women to give their honest feedback – if they would overlook their man cheating if he was drunk.
Carra:
Absolutely not! Reason is simple – if you cannot manage liquor, don’t touch it. I think it is even worse to be straight up, because it would come off to me as not thinking about me but doing whatsoever he wants. So I would quickly end that charade of a relationship.
BT:
I actually went through this – it was me. I went to this event and I guess I got carried away with a few drinks and I ended up sleeping with this random guy at the party. I still haven’t told my fiancé about it and I probably won’t because I simply do not want to lose my relationship over a guy I don’t even know. I am not judgmental because things happen in life and you have regrets, so I would forgive because I found myself in the same situation and I am extremely regretful of it happening but I legitimately did not know what I was doing in the moment.
Diane:
Cheating – whether it is sober or drunk cheat – is still cheating and I am sorry but I could not overlook someone who not only messes with my heart, but destroys my trust. I cannot overlook things like that so once I am aware of my partner cheating, it is best to part company.
Andrene:
I had to forgive my man for more than that. Love is all about forgiveness. I am not saying to be a fool and to let a man walk over you, but if he was completely not conscious of what he was doing, there is no way you can burn a man for that. I am just saying as you grow older, you learn deeper.
Anna:
I am not sure what exactly I would do in the moment if I found out my man was drunk and cheated on me. It sounds horrifying, but I am really on the borderline of what I would do and how I would react.
