Dear Editor,

As another Father’s Day passes, one cannot help but notice the stark contrast in how we celebrate our parents. While Mother’s Day is often marked by widespread recognition and vibrant celebration, Father’s Day seems to come and go with far less attention and appreciation.

This is not to undermine the invaluable role of mothers, but rather to highlight a growing imbalance. Fathers play an equally critical role in the development of our families and, by extension, our society. Yet their contributions are too often understated, overlooked, or taken for granted.

Across Jamaica, many men serve not only as fathers to their biological children but also as mentors, guardians, and positive role models within their communities. These men help to shape discipline, reinforce values, and provide a sense of stability that is essential for raising well-rounded individuals. Their presence matters.

Research and lived experience alike affirm that when fathers are actively involved, children are more likely to demonstrate confidence, emotional stability, and improved social behaviour. Fathers provide structure, guidance, and protection — elements that are crucial in a time when many of our young people face increasing social pressures.

There are at least three compelling reasons we must be more intentional in celebrating our fathers:

1) Fathers provide structure and discipline, helping to instil responsibility and order within the home.

2) Fathers serve as role models and mentors, shaping the values, attitudes, and identity of the next generation.

3) Fathers contribute significantly to the emotional and social development of their children, fostering confidence, resilience, and a sense of security.

If we are serious about nation-building, then we must be equally serious about recognising all those who contribute to it. Fathers are not optional figures; they are essential pillars in the preservation and advancement of society.

To the many fathers who continue to show up, provide, guide, and support — often without recognition — we commend you. Your impact is profound, and your work does not go unnoticed. It is time we move beyond symbolic observances and give our fathers the consistent appreciation they truly deserve because males, especially fathers, are the backbone of society.

Ricardo Smith

Senior educator and social scientist

ricardo.professional.edu@gmail.com