Fulfillment in 1,2,3
There are more layers to sexual fulfillment than meets the eye, and below, Sexual Encounters author Amelia Thompson shares five ways to achieve this ideal.
1. Say what you want
You must be confident enough to ask for what you want. If what you want is to be kissed right there, let your partner know. You have to know how to be assertive when needs be. Mind you, this works both ways, and so you must create an environment wherein your partner must be able to ask for the same.
2. Indicate when you are not being pleased
If you are not being satisfied, the least you can do is put a complaint in the suggestion box! Let your partner know so he can tweak and satisfy you accordingly.
3. Actively take part in the process
Sexual fulfillment works both ways in that you must be willing to play an active part. You must be willing to give and take; compromise and negotiate; make suggestions, and so on. The potency of your sex life will depend on how much you are willing to invest in the relationship.
4. Give as much as you get
Being aroused is truly an exhilarating feeling but what about your partner? Surely they want to be kissed, touched or caressed too. Whatever you want to be done to you, do it tenderly to your partner and your actions will be reciprocated.
5. Educate yourself
Sex may be a human act but in order for you to enjoy it as best as you can, you must educate yourself as well as your partner. Read, consume multimedia, have conversations with other couples — there is a multitude of things that you can do! Learn about your sexual anatomy or even the chemistry behind love.
